Thursday, August 4, 2016

Israeli media reports on therapists and shalom bayis issues in LKWD

 Yudelstake-
 Israeli media reports on the ongoing shalom bayis and issues with therapists taking sides in divorce battles where children are removed from a parent. It one case it appears the father took the therapist to bais din and the psak was to repay legal fees to the father after being falsely accused. According to the posted documents it appears the psak was ignored  read more HERE and on Yudels
שערוריית הטרפיסטיות בארה"ב, עלילות דם נוסחת שנות ה-2000
מספר אירועים שאירעו בשנים האחרונות בארה"ב בכלל ובעיר לייקווד בפרט, העלתה למודעות הציבור את העוול הנורא שנגרם למשפחות עקב העובדה כי טרפיסטיות מטעם ארגון לייקווד ..... שמטרתו אמורה להיות כשמו 'מרכז לחיזוק הבית' אך בפועל, הם נוטים לצד האשה כנגד הבעל גם כאשר העוול זועק עד לשמים. כבר אירעו מספר מקרים בו גרמו לפירוק המשפחות באופן שערורייתי.


במקרה האחרון, החליטו משפחת הבעל שלא לשתוק, ופנו לבית הדין והוכיחו את האבסורד והעוול שנגרם לבעל, אברך ת"ח ויר"ש, אשר העלילו עליו כי פגע באחד הילדים מינית, ובמשך שנתיים לא ניתן לו גישה לילד, האבא נאלץ לעבור משפט ארוך ולשכור עו"ד  מומחה שעלה הון רב, עד שבית המשפט מינה צוות מטפלים ומומחים ושוכנע כי נגרם בזה עוול ללא סיבה
בד"צ 'בית יוסף נובהרדוק' בברוקלין נכנס לעובי הקורה והוציא פסק דין כנגד הארגון המחייב אותם לשלם לבעל את כל הנזקים וההפסדים שנגרמו לבעל ולמשפחתו, כמו"כ פסק הבד"צ כי עליהם למשוך את ידם ולא לטפל בתיק זה כלל.
ממקרה זה ניתן ללמוד כי לא בכל מקרה של תלונה מצד האשה צריך לקפוץ ולהאשים את הבעל.
מצו"ב מסמכי ביה"ד בית יוסף והדברים מדברים בעד עצמם



19 comments:

  1. It's time we call this organization at 732... it's in our hands to stop this madness that goes on in our town.
    I don't know who is right and who is wrong and it really does not matter what matters is that there is the new norm novice therapists making decisions that have huge ramifications on families are destroying children and parents. If you need to block your caller ID do it but call. I did. Disclaimer I don't know anyone that's involved in this I am merely an observer who is seen the disaster brought upon families.

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  2. not really "media". more like a blog forum.

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  3. I like how u knock harry marylis for not knowing anything about lakewood yet you rely on Israel news to feed you dirt about Lakewood. Buddy u have a double standard.

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    1. Buddy, there is a clear psak Bais din here. Two sides signed arbitration in a bais din and the BD issued its psak. The psak was posted on an Israeli website.

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  4. hi harry,
    thanks for stopping by.

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  5. dont know the case but once you sign a shtar berurin in BD you are mechuyav to pay and are bound by the psak din.

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  6. another case in Lakewoods for signing and agreeing to Bais din only to go back on it! Just look at Westgate.

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  7. According to Yudel Shain blog ,that Bais din is not allowed to call themselves Bais Yosef and maybe the people who signed can tayna they were fooled into signing.

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    1. Bais Yosef is a respected BD trusted by the biggest names. This argument of using a name is ludicrous. The therapists agreed to go to the din Torah. They lost.

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  8. Seems that is what you have to do thsee days if you want to be a "mechubad"

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  9. Who is the daas torah of the agency the president said everything they do is guided by daas torah

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  10. Call them and ask how they can have a therapist who called DYFS, ignores a psak BD, yet is trusted to make decisions on nefashos?

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  11. https://yudelstake.blogspot.com/2016/07/de-ja-vu-another-lakewood-mother-has.html

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  12. The therapists on their own will not do these things they are guided by askanim who take sides by feminist Rabbonim who dont bother to listen to both sides of a story. This is how its done in Lakewood. A few powerful people get away with it because they control lots of money and have the power to bully threaten and be rodef anyone they feel like.

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  13. Its not only a Lakewood problem these tactics go on all over the US were ladies figured out how to use and abuse the court system in their favor. Unfortunately in Lakewood you have facilitators advising vulnerable women to use these shtick in getting rid of their husbands.

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    1. there are more chasidish and hungarian rabanim in lakewood than litvish. and lakewood hasn't been a litvish makom hatorah in a decade.

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  14. One of these therapists is highly sought after and charges patients privately at her home $130 a session. Why dont ppl do research??

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  15. Is LCSC under the Vaad?

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    1. R' Moshe Z. Weisberg runs the Lakewood vaad and is also the president of LCSC, not sure if its directly under the vaad but Reb Aaron Kotler refers to it as an affiliate to CHEMED

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